{"id":321,"date":"2023-12-26T20:42:03","date_gmt":"2023-12-26T20:42:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/?p=321"},"modified":"2023-12-26T20:42:03","modified_gmt":"2023-12-26T20:42:03","slug":"special-snowflake-syndrome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/?p=321","title":{"rendered":"Special Snowflake Syndrome"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This is a VERY important yet overlooked topic in fitness.  This idea alone stops millions of people each year from getting into shape.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I call it &#8220;special snowflake syndrome&#8221;.  The idea is that so many people think of themselves as a special snowflake, and since they are such a uniquely special snowflake, certain things won&#8217;t work for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since they&#8217;re a special snowflake, the standard approach won&#8217;t work for them.  There are too many examples to list, but they all share a common theme: they are an excuse used to justify not doing something that people don&#8217;t want to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For 99% of you, your hormones are <em>not<\/em> permanently messed up, you <em>don&#8217;t<\/em> have some genetic mutation that stops you from building muscle or losing fat, and you <em>don&#8217;t<\/em> have some anatomical anomaly that prevents you from squatting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I once had a guy tell me that he can&#8217;t squat because he had some minor injury playing soccer in elementary school!  I wish I was making this up!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of the time, people use these excuses because they are afraid of one of two things: discomfort or failure.  It ultimately comes down to fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve been there myself.  For years I didn&#8217;t squat because I was afraid of failure.  Squatting was hard, and if I didn&#8217;t try, then I couldn&#8217;t fail.  Granted, it took me years to realize this truth.  At the time, I told myself the same bullshit excuses that most people live by:<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Squatting is bad for my back<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I&#8217;m too tall to squat<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Squatting isn&#8217;t that important<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Etc, etc, etc<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>These are the things I told myself, but the truth is that I was just scared.  I can admit that to myself now.  It&#8217;s not a bad thing to be scared of something that&#8217;s good for you.  It <em>is<\/em> a bad thing to let that fear control you.  Eventually I decided that, even though I&#8217;m scared, I&#8217;m going to stop making excuses and just do it anyway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The moral of this story is to stop telling yourself that you&#8217;re a special snowflake because you&#8217;re almost certainly not.  The fundamentals and basic principles that work for everyone else will work for you too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now go out there and get after it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a VERY important yet overlooked topic in fitness. This idea alone stops millions of people each year from getting into shape. I call it &#8220;special snowflake syndrome&#8221;. The idea is that so many people think of themselves as a special snowflake, and since they are such a uniquely special snowflake, certain things won&#8217;t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/321"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=321"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/321\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":322,"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/321\/revisions\/322"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=321"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=321"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dayonestrength.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=321"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}